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Why not me?
I was making cookies thinking about what my coworkers had been saying. It has been 5 years since me and my partner became together. It...
Tojo 1213
Dec 23, 20184 min read
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Stitches
And there you have it, folks! I just received my first stitches, 7 to be exact. My partner thoughtfully gifted me a new Cuisinart, a food...
Tojo 1213
Dec 23, 20182 min read
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Christmas lights
I love sitting by the light of the Christmas tree. I have always loved that glow. There is an intimacy, romantic, and just peaceful...
Tojo 1213
Dec 21, 20182 min read
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Personality Test
I am taking a Psychology course as part of my degree requirements. What a course! I am learning so much that I had not even taken into...
Tojo 1213
Nov 30, 20181 min read
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Happy Thanksgiving 2018
Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays. It's not about the "story" or the food, it's about at this time of year, where people are...
Tojo 1213
Nov 22, 20184 min read
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This is 45!
My 45th birthday came (November 8th). It was not so bad. Actually, it was extremely wonderful. I had not expected that my boyfriend (MD)...
Tojo 1213
Nov 11, 20182 min read
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Countdown to 45
I can hear the clock ticking on the wall, see and feel the sands slipping through the hour glass. There is an eerie emphasis on this...
Tojo 1213
Nov 3, 20183 min read
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10 Amazing things I have learned the hard way
There are days where I am not sure what to do. I get confused about which choice to make. I always felt like there was a right answer. I...
Tojo 1213
Nov 2, 20187 min read
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Girl Power - Music for Motivation
People have looked to music to help empower them through life’s challenges, and I am no exception. While preparing for and then going...
Tojo 1213
Oct 17, 20181 min read
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Helping a Drug Addict
It's difficult to understand how people become drug addicts. I get mad at the people I've lost for choosing that first experiment. There...
Tojo 1213
Oct 14, 20182 min read
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Friendship Circles
"The circle of women around us weave invisible nets of love that carry us when we are weak and sing with us when we are strong." - Sark...
Tojo 1213
Oct 12, 20182 min read
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I Took A Deep Breath
Today, I woke up from a strange dream. The kind that lingers throughout the day toying with your mind. It was ridiculous but still felt...
Tojo 1213
Oct 11, 20185 min read
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Thinking Positive, Feeling Grateful
"When you wake up with a grateful heart, you give your day a positive start" -Whispers of the Soul Look around you! What makes you feel...
Tojo 1213
Oct 10, 20182 min read
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The Apartment
It was February and smack dab in the middle of a Michigan winter. I needed to be on my own and could only feel this sense of excitement...
Tojo 1213
Oct 6, 20183 min read
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What is Unconditional?
Unconditional. What does that mean? The dictionary defines it as not subject to any conditions, not limited. So what does that mean? No...
Tojo 1213
Jul 21, 20183 min read
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The Chance Meeting
I didn’t know that attending a week-long training session would make such a significant difference in my life. Sure, we should all commit...
Tojo 1213
May 7, 20183 min read
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Trust Issues
Why do I keep discovering the people I care about are not exactly as I had envisioned them to be? It’s beginning to feel surreal. I get...
Tojo 1213
Sep 7, 20172 min read
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Shake up your life: how to change your own perspective
I was listening to meditation music as I went to sleep. I had heard that the subconscious is actively absorbing the messages. I thought...
Tojo 1213
Oct 13, 20162 min read
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Out with the old, in with the new
Well, it has been eight months. I started off scared but confident, and here I am grateful and remaining confident. It was so painful,...
Tojo 1213
Aug 6, 20162 min read
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On the Path to Loving Me Again- A Reflection
There is a great transformation that occurs when people choose to leave abusive relationships in the pursuit of personal health and...
Tojo 1213
Jan 9, 20162 min read
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